Korean movie 'Temperature of Love' Let's check the temperature of love between lovers?
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The film opens with interviews between the two main characters interspersed throughout. An interview about the feelings of lovers when breaking up.
They are coworkers who have been in a secret relationship for 3 years. They dated without anyone knowing, but they broke up today. The next morning, the two met again as coworkers and cursed at each other at work as if they were not together, broke each other's belongings and sent them back to the company, shopped online at couple rates, and started to follow each other and investigate each other when they heard that each other had new lovers.
In front of each other and when interviewing other people, they coolly say they broke up, but the female protagonist cries when she gets home, and the male protagonist looks for his ex-girlfriend while drunk at a place where he is introduced to a new woman. In the end, they fight at a company dinner and tell each other that they are dating, and all of their coworkers find out.
.....But....
Then, somehow, they decide to date again.
If anything has changed, it is that they now hide what they want to say for fear of hurting each other, they don't express their feelings properly, and they are reluctant to tell each other the truth because they are considerate of each other. The relationship between the two is becoming awkward. They say it feels like they are dating for the first time, but it is not a relationship that has advanced to the next level, but a relationship that is once again repeating the past.
At that time, after watching the movie, I left the theater saying, "What is this?!!!"
But, the fight between the two that keeps coming to mind. And then meeting again....
People who have been in a relationship know. They fight every time, but they fight over trivial things that they can't even remember exactly why they fought. And then they make up again, and then they fight again... Hmm... Now that I think about it, there are couples who don't fight. Except for that couple!
In a relationship, fights sometimes have a clear reason, but sometimes they are just hurt feelings, hurt feelings over something very trivial, and if you say it, you are too petty(!) to say it, and then you fight for a different reason. When that happens, the other person starts to not understand you, wondering why you are fighting over this. Is this the person I knew? Is this the person who usually gets angry over this? The misunderstanding deepens.
Men and women are different. It is not that women get emotionally hurt and men don't, but that the situations in which they get emotionally hurt are different. Women get hurt when someone doesn't respond when they swear at them, and men get hurt when they ask questions and demand answers about incomparable things, such as whether they like soccer or me.
Even though they know that they are different, when it comes to reality, it is not easy to admit that they are different. When that happens, the woman thinks that the man does not love her, and the man starts to feel uncomfortable because he keeps questioning her with difficult questions.
In some ways, when dating, it seems necessary to think about what the other person’s love is like rather than your own. Think about what the other person’s love is like rather than your passion for love. If you do not know how much that love is, your temperature and the other person’s temperature will not match. The temperature of the love that the two of you feel for the other person must be similar in order for it to continue without hurting each other.
Men and women cannot help but feel different things about each other. However, the duration of the relationship is determined by the degree to which they accept each other. The man should not be too hot and the woman should not be too cold, and vice versa.
You should think about the temperature of your partner's love to avoid hurting each other and check each other's love. You should not be immersed in your own love. Love is not something you do alone; you need someone you love.
If you have long-time lovers, isn't it because the temperature of your love is similar? Because it's balanced and not biased to one side.
If you're in a relationship, how about checking the temperature of your love and the temperature of your partner's love? Then you'll know why you're happy or why you're fighting.
I thought, "Oh, I saw it by mistake" but this conclusion came out... My love for movies is very, very cold!!! I'm not sure about the recommendation~~~
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